Lifestyle as a Switch
‧₊˚✧[My sub side]✧˚₊‧
My headspaces slide between a bratty puppy or service sub lamb, regardless I am always a pet player that loves primal play, even as a Dom. I will always be animalistic and somewhat unpredictable as a pet/primal. Though, my service sides only mission is to please, whether that be sexually or doing tasks to impress my Dom. Often times I like to use furs to present my primal side but I don't enjoy fursuits. I'm a big fan of leather hoods and have several of them among other leather goods. Please recognize that as a service sub I'm not going to be willing to give that to just anyone, I will not allow myself to be used or abused by someone whp purely wants me to do things for them but never return anything. I'm still a brat, a brat that needs you to convince me you're worthy of me‧₊˚✧
Please be clear in your wants and desires with me or what you need, I am not a mind reader and I can get really emotionally invested in people. I cannot handle someone walking into my life and treating me like royalty only to abandon me in the end. I don't do hierarchy and I don't do comparison. Jealousy is okay and expected, but it's not okay to project those feelings and emotions onto others, learn how to communicate with me. As a Brat I love to push buttons and get under your skin and a rough Dom that can sass me back just as hard is attractive. As a service sub I'm much softer and fragile, vulnerable. Please be gentle with me✧˚₊‧
「 ✦ My Dom Side ✦ 」
Decrepit old Mutt just looking for a bone to bury ⟢
I'm a TPE Dom that loves structure and discipline. I do not reward bad behaviour, you will not act out of disrespect in front of me, or have me hear about you behaving improperly as My sub. You represent the both of U/us and I expect you to be courteous, understanding, kind, and respectful to everyone you meet. Of course there are always circumstances that venture outside of that that I give grace for but you won't be rewarded for being a disrespectful brat or bad person. It costs 0 dollars to be kind. I expect you to communicate with me on what you need from me, whether that be more affection/attention or quality time together. Learn to approach me with care and consideration. I will not be a pushover Dom. I love dark play such as torture, gore, primal play, CNC subjects alike, impact play, blood play, degradation, and much more. I am not someone I consider to be a nice Dom. I like being rough, crude, and perverse. If this isn't for you; then do not approach me for play. Of course I'm willing to compromise and discuss limits, but I am not willing to compromise who I am or my own preferences either so you can have your cake and eat it too. It's okay if were incompatible. ⟢
˚₊‧꒰ა My Relationships/Dynamics໒꒱ ‧₊˚
⤷ ゛My Anchor ˎˊ˗
We have been together for 6 years, though I will keep his name offline most times due to the fact that he is not a social media person and I respect his privacy, but he does exist and if we ever call you may or may not hear him with me. He is trans FTM as well and my best friend. He comes before anyone else and will be my priority as I live with him. This isn't a hierarchy as much as it is I'm nested with this person and he can effect my daily life much like work, school, and other responsibilities I may have. Nobody will trump him just as much as he cannot trump anyone else. We do not practice vetoing in our relationship but we are poly/mono and he has no interest or desire to have any other partner besides me.
⤷ ゛My Protectee, Romina ˎˊ˗
Romina does not get online very much so when she is and I am also available, I will be spending my time with her. She's not a partner, but a dynamic I have with the intention of keeping her safe from unwanted Doms, providing life advice, and being a support system to her. We have been best friends for nearly 10 years at this point and I love her dearly. Do not treat her like trash or you will regret it, and I don't say that because of myself but because of her own attitude. She will light you up and not feel bad for it, I'm nicer than her. Do not come to me expecting me to make her "be nice" because I will side with her. I know her very well as she does me. I may be her Protector but I am not her Dom. I will not make her be anything or anyone else besides herself and hold true to her values, and she does. Don't fuck with Mi Gatita ૮ ․ ․ ྀིა
⤷ ゛My precious pubby ˎˊ˗
Onyx is an incredibly sweet boy with a lot of tolerance, more than I have. He may not say anything to you about your disrespect but his behaviour towards you will reflect it. Do not come to me expecting me to force him to interact with you because you want to play with him. We love cucks, we hate losers that can't take a no. I have no issue with someone wanting to play with him but I want to know about it at the very least. He is not your fetish, do not fetishize him. Do not disrespect him or you will hear from me, regardless if you know me or not. I will go full Liam Neeson in Taken. He does not deserve to be treated as such and I won't tolerate it. I'm his Daddy and it's my job to protect, nurture, guide, love, and help regulate him and his life beside his primary.
˗ˏˋ ꒰ Read Me ꒱ ˎˊ˗
✗•Do not meddle or mingle in my relationships/dynamics. You may inform me of things but insinuating I need to leave any of my partners/dynamics for your benefit is a one way ticket to being blocked. That is nobodies choice to make but mine and mine alone and I am more than capable of making my own decisions.
✗•Do not try to force me into the headspace you want me in. If I enter as a large masc, male avi you can assume I'm being Dominant and want to be treated as such, the same goes with my sub side.
✗•Do not expect me to be okay with you putting a leash on me, collaring me, giving me structure or rules, or insinuating you have any authority over me, and obeying you without knowing you well or having an agreed upon interaction between each other. Earn my submission.
✗•Do not bring me your petty drama. I am Dominant in every corner of my life to being the primary decision maker for my Anchor, a Dom to my pubby, a Protector to my best friend, and even at work. Please take this into consideration as I may be mentally exhausted and physically exhausted. I also have mental health conditions and will need breaks from time to time. I do not have the time to sit in the drama you created while playing victim to your own hands. It's a waste of my time.
✗•Don't bring me "he said, she said" garbage. If you have no screenshots to back up anything, your words are merely heresay and I will treat them as such. Too many people are wildly manipulative on this site and I have to take everything with a phat grain of salt. It's not personal.
⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘Limits⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘
⚠︎ First and foremost my limits are not for anyone else to decide or complain about. I am not the kind of sub or person that allows my Dom or partner to dictate my limits. If this isn't okay with you, then leave in peace. ⚠︎
✗•face hitting (a light mocking tap is fine, any force behind it will make me react back and I will more than likely rock your shit. It's just a natural response I have to being struck in the face so don't do it.)
✗•Sissification/feminization (I'm very masc IRL)
✗•Horse/bovine furs. They freak me out.
✗•Vore. Do I really have to explain?
✗•Diapers. I'm 30, please.
✗•Vomit/Scat/Watersports
✗•Age playing (for myself- I will not age play)
✗•Feral RP
✗•Interspecies
✗•Rp as a minor
✗•Incest/faux incest
✗•Beastiality/Zoophilia/Lolicon/Lolita
✗•Degradation in the form of mocking me for being gay, trans, or how I look. Calling me a slut, whore, etc is fine but don't mock my person.
✗•Fisting/sounding/CBT/genital torture
✗•Weight fetishization whether that be on the skinny spectrum or feederism
✗•Intox play. I do not consider marijuana to be a drug or mind altering but anything else, including alcohol, is a no pass zone. I will not participate in a scene while drunk nor will I play with someone else whose inhibitions are lowered
✗•Coercion/blackmail/abuse is not tolerated
✗•I will not pretend to be mentally disabled or physically disabled for your sexual gratification. As a chronically ill person I find this disturbing and sick. Please seek therapy.
⏔⏔⏔ ꒰ DNI ꒱ ⏔⏔⏔
✗•You participate in feral RP
✗•You roleplay as minor characters
✗•Interspecies Rp eg: human x anthro
✗•Dark age player (I will not judge you but don't expect me to play with you)
✗•Romanticize age regression
✗•Do not get prior consent
✗•Think you are entitled to me or my person
✗•Trans fetishists
✗•You are a minor
✗•MAPS
✗•ABDL